Unchaahi: against Female Foeticide in India

Thursday, February 21, 2008

A beginning ...

Rest in Peace, Little Angel (Give the girl child a chance to live)

I've been meaning to start posting on this blog for over a week now, but I kept putting it off since I felt that I hadn't yet immersed myself deeply into the layers of the issue that I want to focus this blog on. The issue that pertains not only to the unborn female fetuses that are being aborted in countries like India but to the mere essence of being a woman. The generational undermining of the value of a female life, I thought, required a deeper study. I kept reading articles on gender inequality, reports on research conducted in areas with adverse sex ratios, documents listing statistical evidence of consistent decline in the number of girls born in regions worse affected by sex-selective abortions etc. However, I wasn't getting much out of my readings except frustration with myself for not being able to help the situation and frustration at the world for being so cruel. Today again, I chanced upon a news item published in The Times of India that talks about 13 abandoned newborn girl children on the streets of capital city of Delhi left to die in the cold. Needless to say, I was frustrated to no end. Eventually, I decided it was time to let my frustration out through writing about what I feel rather than running from bedroom to living room and back in hopes of burning it off as exertion.

I am not a sociologist by profession and neither am I a psychologist, but I am a woman. I am a woman whose life could've been easily snatched from her just as it was from millions of Missing Girls of India. I am a girl whose parents could've left her at an orphanage with a neatly packed bag containing a change of clothes, milk formula and disposable nappies. I am one of the group whose numbers are on a constant decline just because our lives have no monetary value. I am just a nobody who is lucky to be alive. Yet, I am somebody who wants to work towards making sure that there are many others who get lucky just like I did. Little girls who are being perished every day at the hands of deeply rooted misguided cultural norms deserve to live just as much as their male counterparts. Technology was meant to better our lives. Who knew it would be used in attempts of wiping out half of the human race?

My effort through this blog is not to state just the facts and figures (that are widely available on internet) but discuss the emotional distraught that an issue as such brings about in addition to my journey towards contributing in addressing the issue in a proactive manner. I intend to keep this blog as a diary for listing any accomplishments I might have in the next few months or years to get closer to tackling a crime that must take as high a priority as ethnic cleansing.

There are many articles, news, position papers, research reports widely available on the net. I shall also try to bring together as much material as I possibly can on this blog for a more informed view on the topic of female feticide / foeticide or sex-selective abortion. It's always good to know where and why it hurts before trying to treat the wound.

For starters, here's a valuable read:
India's missing girls -- Nipping them in the bud?

Not to miss:
UK Indian women 'aborting girls'
(be sure to watch the video / hear the audio)

Time for the necessary cultural awakening????

I look forward to populate this blog soon.

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6 Comments:

  • R, Beautifully written. Seems like a different woman I am interacting with than the one I know since few years.
    Anyways, I am in....I am reading and understanding the concern and the motivation behind that. if you ever need to discuss anything, buzz me and will talk about it more.
    May be a documentary to show we are worth something...

    Hugz
    VJ

    By Blogger Shadows of life, At February 22, 2008 at 3:47 PM  

  • i dont really know what to type..its horrible and it makes me want to do something...but no clear cut solution hits me..

    i havent read everythin here at yet...watched the audio visual and its scary.

    did they(govt) have any incentives to have female children? did they work?

    thankyou for spending your time on this issue. ill be back to read some more.

    By Blogger menopausal_ballerina, At February 24, 2008 at 5:41 AM  

  • hey ladies!!

    Good to hear from you.

    V, most definitely!! :) I've messaged you on ryze. I look forward to see more input from you here.

    Fishyfish, thanks for ur input as well. Govt does have some schemes afloat but nothing is incentive enough it seems. Well, if a police inspector tries to not involve himself by saying 'this keeps happening. let it be' when someone goes to complain to him about an illegal abortion, wut can govt legislations do? Really don't know how the cultural norms can be altered to fit in the global economy of today. I do feel that awareness via media et al is key. Awareness of the impacts of what they are doing, and awareness that girls are really not all that bad anymore in addition to getting complete rid of societal menaces like dowry et al. Lots to do in time so less. Despite the work of NGOs, it's only getting worse.

    Awareness, I believe, is key ... plus empowerment of women is key!

    ah more on blog :D ... thanks for the encouragement. look forward to see more of you.

    r r

    By Blogger r r, At February 24, 2008 at 8:39 AM  

  • I so support you...
    I so understand and I so wish there si something I can do

    By Blogger Alankrita, At February 25, 2008 at 9:56 AM  

  • I so support you.
    We need to work on getting some education in these societies. It is usually the illiterate that do things beyond normal or rational thinking. I mean western education!! If we can join efforts in educating these societies then we will be making a step towards saving them.

    By Blogger sonia, At February 25, 2008 at 11:29 AM  

  • Thanks, ladies. It really puts a smile on my face to see you here. :)) thanks, alan. really :).

    sonia, sadly, it's the 'urban educated' ones who are indulging in killing their daughters more than the 'illiterate' ones as we'd assume. true that education is important, but education of EVERY class in society is important from the very rich to the very poor. like i said, sadly, money and education doesn't seem to be making any difference. it's the mentality that is *$($ed that needs be changed.

    By Blogger r r, At February 25, 2008 at 4:55 PM  

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